A dear friend of mine at work told me she felt very dissapointed with her partner for not telling her the truth. She said her partner has been transferred to the other state because of work, and now they are meeting each other only on weekends. Last week, she secretly set up something on her partner's handphone, so that she could read all of the incoming smses. Unexpectedly, she found out her partner always text this one lady, and she knows something is going on between both of them..
Personally, I feel sorry for her.
However, I still believe that it is needless to invade other people privacy even though that person is your soulmate. It will makes you feel restless day by day and the result, faith that you have built with your partner will fades away. To me, no faith meaning no relationship. Simple as that.
If your partner did something not cool behind your back, just keep believe in karma. Karma works all the time. Life is like a cycle, one day you will be on the top, maybe on the other day you will be at the bottom. Karma can be very mean. If today you did something bad to other people, one day other people will do bad to you.
Please don't feel bad to be sincere. For instance, if you don't have feelings towards your partner anymore, just be sincere. Just talk and be honest. I know it hurts, but it is better than your partner figure it out by him/herself. Even worst if he/she know it from other people.
Karma really is a bitch. Believe me!